Bedtime Blessings-Help for Night Terrors

Bedtime used to be a time of dread for us, as many parents. The fear of night terrors and nightmares left us wondering what the night would look like. The agony of seeing our 6 year old son being held captive by the enemy and not even be able to respond, was extremely difficult. It went on for 2 years. We were committed to trying everything to help him. No dairy before bed. Encouraging him to discuss times throughout the day when he had felt embarassed or hurt and allowing him to process those emotions before he went to bed. Reading Scripture over him in his bed. Singing a family hymn together before sleep. Speaking the Name and Blood of Jesus to cover him and to ask for God to hide him from the enemy.  Adamantly interceding for him daily and together with my husband. And speaking his identity over him. These became our routine. I believe each one of them played a part in restoring balance and order over our home. And I’m thankful to say, Praise the Giver of all, that season has passed for us.

I know there are others who struggle with this! This is a battle of the enemy. According to God, the husband has the authority over the family and we as Christians have the authority over the enemy. Jesus gave it to us! Luke 10:19 The husband should speak life and the Name and Blood of Jesus over the child and call forth peace and balance and order over your household.

Every parent is responsible to call out their child’s identity and tell them who they are in Christ. In a world where we are quick to let our children decide for themselves who they are, we must tell them who God intended them to be: His child, holy and dearly loved. That’s not to say children shouldn’t continue towards their natural bend Proverbs 22:6. God designed them toward a natural inclination for different talents. As we see those talents and gifts within, we call them out and nurture those so they will grow. But we as parents must provide the lens of the Word that enables children to see who they are. To say “yes, daughter, God made you a girl, to one day become a woman of faith, with a purpose for His kingdom.” and “Yes, son, God made you a boy, to grow in stature and favor with God and man.” So here is what I have for you. Read them while your child is awake, drifting to sleep, and whenever you are walking along the road. Deut 6:6-9


Identity Truths for Your Child

You are God’s child. You are Christ’s friend. You have been justified –made right with God–and your punishment has been satisfied. You are united with the Lord in one spirit. You are bought with a price. You belong to God. You are a member of the body. You are a saint. You have been adopted as God’s child. You have access to God through the Holy Spirit. You have been redeemed and forgiven. You are complete in Christ. You are accepted. You are secure. You are free forever from condemnation. You are assured that everything works together for your good. You are free from any charge against you. You cannot be separated from the love of God.

You are established, anointed, and sealed by God. You are hidden with Christ in God. You can be confident that the good work God has begun in you will be perfected. You are a citizen of heaven. You have not been given a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. You can find grace and mercy in your time of need. You were born of God, and the evil one cannot touch you. You are significant. You are the salt and light of the earth. You are a branch of the true vine, a channel of his life. You have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit.

You are a personal witness of Christ. You are God’s temple. You are a minister of reconciliation for God. You are to make peace and make it right with others. You are God’s coworker. You are seated with Christ in the heavenly realm. You are God’s workmanship, his masterpiece. You may approach God with freedom and confidence. You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. You are chosen and appointed by Christ to bear his fruit. You are God’s servant. You are a son of God. God is spiritually your Good Father.

You are a joint heir with Christ. You share your inheritance with Christ. You are a temple. You are a dwelling place of God. His Spirit and his life dwell in you. You are united to the Lord and you are one spirit with Him. You are a member of Christ’s body. You are a new creation. You have sonship with God. You are a saint. You were born anew in Christ to do his work–Good works he planned long ago before you were born. You are a fellow citizen with the rest of God’s family. You are a prisoner of Christ. You are righteous and holy because of your faith in Jesus.

You are seated in heaven right now. You are an expression of the life of Christ because he is your life. You are chosen of God, holy and dearly loved. You are a son of light, not of darkness. You are a holy partaker of a heavenly calling. You are a partaker of Christ. You share in his life. You are one of God’s living Stones, being built up in Christ as a spiritual house. You are a member of a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people of God’s own possession. You are a stranger to this world in which you temporarily live. You are an enemy of the devil. You will resemble Christ when he returns. You are born of God and the enemy has no power over you. HE who is In You is greater than he who is in the world. You are not The Great ‘I am’ but by the grace of God, you are what you are.                                                                (Adapted from “Victory Over Darkness”)


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